"...we are the mishaps that always happen in threes"
Category Family and Life
Well...looks like I'll be attending another funeral here soon. My wife's grandmother has probably less than a week to live. She's being transported here today, and will either finish her days in a local hospice or possibly our house.
Why our house? Well, it used to be her's. We own my wife's grandparents house. It was built by her grandfather, and her Dad and uncles grew up here. Her grandfather even died here (in our bedroom to be exact.) The house has been in the family nearly 60 years at this point, and it only seems fitting that Anna may return here to pass on.
Needless to say, it's not a good situation, and I'm not looking forward to another death around here so quickly, especially when it might happen in my office. But, Anna hasn't been doing well for some time, so maybe this will bring some peace. I feel really bad for my father-in-law who seems to be taking it hard, and I know that Jen is being a real trooper, but probably not doing so well on the inside.
In a couple weeks we're supposed to visit one of my best friends and his wife and kid. Well since this may throw a wrench into things, I wanted to let him know. Well, his wife just found out that her mother only has two weeks to live due to cancer. So the trip is called off, and they have their own things to deal with.
[sigh] Not a good few weeks... Hopefully this is the end of the proverbial trio of bad things...
Well...looks like I'll be attending another funeral here soon. My wife's grandmother has probably less than a week to live. She's being transported here today, and will either finish her days in a local hospice or possibly our house.
Why our house? Well, it used to be her's. We own my wife's grandparents house. It was built by her grandfather, and her Dad and uncles grew up here. Her grandfather even died here (in our bedroom to be exact.) The house has been in the family nearly 60 years at this point, and it only seems fitting that Anna may return here to pass on.
Needless to say, it's not a good situation, and I'm not looking forward to another death around here so quickly, especially when it might happen in my office. But, Anna hasn't been doing well for some time, so maybe this will bring some peace. I feel really bad for my father-in-law who seems to be taking it hard, and I know that Jen is being a real trooper, but probably not doing so well on the inside.
In a couple weeks we're supposed to visit one of my best friends and his wife and kid. Well since this may throw a wrench into things, I wanted to let him know. Well, his wife just found out that her mother only has two weeks to live due to cancer. So the trip is called off, and they have their own things to deal with.
[sigh] Not a good few weeks... Hopefully this is the end of the proverbial trio of bad things...







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The nice thing is that this place is wonderful... It's made for everyone to come over (including pets.) It's not the sterile environment you would expect.
http://www.joliethospice.org/virtualtour.php
So thank you guys for all your thoughts and prayers, I'm just not as cool as ya all thought...
Posted by Greyhawk68 At 08:41:31 PM On 08/10/2006 | - Website - |
I think that's really cool that you guys would bring her home to end out her life. That's just such a wonderful way to honour her. That takes a lot of guts on your part and I really really respect that. Not an easy choice I'm sure...
Posted by Kevin At 08:44:45 AM On 08/10/2006 | - Website - |
Sorry you and Jen are having such a difficult Summer. Having been denied the chance for an extended goodbye when my grandfather developed complications after surgery, I hope you'll agree there is a bright side to this otherwise sad situation.
Thoughts and prayers coming your way. Take care.
-Kev
Posted by Kevin Pettitt At 11:30:35 PM On 08/11/2006 | - Website - |
Posted by kristina klein At 07:51:14 PM On 08/11/2006 | - Website - |
Not to blow smoke up your ass, but you my friend, most definitely are as cool as we think.
-Devin.
Posted by Devin Olson At 09:37:58 AM On 08/11/2006 | - Website - |
Peace
Posted by Joe Litton At 12:01:17 PM On 08/10/2006 | - Website - |
Maybe Anna will leave some positive, protective energy in your office.
Posted by kristina klein At 06:22:07 PM On 08/10/2006 | - Website - |
You and your family are in my prayers my friend.
-Devin.
Posted by Devin Olson At 10:30:48 AM On 08/10/2006 | - Website - |